"what is love?"

i went to yahoo and type in the exact same words n this is some interesting phrases the writer pointed out...

*Many people believe love is a sensation that magically generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. No wonder so many people are single. An excerpt from "Head to Heart."

This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.

LOVE IS A CHOICE, By focusing on the good, you can love almost anyone


The more you give, the more you love


"A relationship has its ups and downs," "The downs can be really low -- and when you're in one, you have three choices: Leave, stay in a loveless marriage, or choose to love your spouse."


just a simple four letter word but it definitely has profound meaning behind it.. which i'm sure most wld agree..


but wat i wonder is how love can really diminish so fast and at the end of the day u found out tat the person u tot u truly love is no longer loving u at all...hmm......

why i decide to post this entry is becoz today i can announced proudly tat i've walk out from the past..totally.

almost 3 yrs.. the day he called it a day & decide to leave for another person.. i used think it is only myself to blame for the failed relationship. thinking that i might nt be as gd as the other..

throughout the time, we still contact one another & it was like we're 'gd frens'.

i decided to put all this shit to a COMPLETE stop.

mayb, i finally realise wat the use of us contacting ?? its not as if we are still getting back tog..

it has really been awhile since we contacted and today, yes today he sms me asking whether am i ignoring him..


i intended to do so.... but was amazed he guessed it correctly...


my rely:

we r still frenz......



his reply:

i understand wat u mean.. can i still ask u out for ban mian??



*faint.....--->still can think of ban mian.....



my reply:

can. but mayb u shld start bringin ur gf.



his reply:

k.understand where u are coming frm.sorry. wun bother u again.



i did nt reply...



he msg me several minutes later




"Sorry if i made u mad or unhappy"




hmm.. frankly, i was nt mad or unhappy in any way... y shld i??




my colleague, andy once told me: 'you shld only cherish those who cherish you..'

he make sense....


& i will only make those who let me down be part of HISTORY..... ;P

the evil took the better of me..

juz came back from my ktv session w Chloe.. can tell both of us are so bored tat we resort to singing.. initially chloe suggested that we shld go shopping but be coz i spent too much ytd tat i decided to stop buying today. yup, juz for today.. :P

i bought a new sunglasses!!! i'm so happy.. finally i settled on one.. cos i look bad in glasses tat my fren suggested i shldnt buy any at all.. :(

but i dun care!!! i juz wan it! and 'ta dan'... here is my glasses.. & i love it to bits..but it cause a BIG damage to my wallet...

*my new indulgence*

i tot the casing look really outdated.
but the salesperson told me thats e one my glasses came with..
so bo bian lar..

*big damage*

i juz cant stop spending & my shop list is stil as long as ever..


& Christmas is also nearing.. i cant imagine my credit card bill.. :X juz wats wrong with me..??? i cant seem to stop spending. actually i do feel abit guilty at times for spending unnecessarily ..



hmm.. i secretly wish for a cash machine tat provides me w endless cash for this Christmas.. *Santa, i hope u see this ya*

jus to side track a bit, i had a pimples outbreak today.. i look totally chui can..! i got a shock when i woke up tis morning.. sigh.. i hope my skII will do the rescuing in time.. before it got my whole face..

8 pimples in juz one side of my side.. yucks!
i'm a ugly ger now.. :(

helppp!!!!!

i went to Gleneagles ytd.. its my first time there.. of cos, i'm not at the least keen to go there at all.. :P yup, went to see a cardiac specialist. i dread going . i dread going thru the series of tests all over again & again.. i think this is already the 5th checks i had on my heart just this yr alone..



luckily, this time round, the doctor made me feel easier.. he is old n stern looking but he is so humorous & made my time there better.. mayb thats e power of a 'gleneagles' doc?? since they are expensive & so their doctors also give better services?? mayb...




the clinic's packed w ppl.. but i dam sure i'm the youngest,there..
tat makes me feel i'm a old soul in a young body.. i'm only in my early twenties but my body made me feel otherwise..a heart in addition a back problem. gosh..




i guess in a certain way, it makes me feel even more that life is fragile & twisted... i always make it a point to remind myself now & then tat i shld embrace life & be kind to others while i still hav the ability too... :D

I'm a Happy girl...

Yup. thanks to deepavali, had a break from work.. *relief*
not only tat man, i went shopping !! @ citilink.. i think its been a while since i buy so many items at one shop.. & i actually entitled for their life time membership already.. heehee.. their clothes are really quite nice & i'm definately goin back for more!!


i caught a movie as well..STARDUST. it was GOOD.... it shows how great love can be.. gals will really like it.. romantic and funny.. especially robert de niro...funny, funny.. & Michelle Pfeiffer.. she still look so gd despite her age..


holiday ended, reality falls back. its time to do sales again..


nvm, retail therapy shall fix it all.. :P

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