Ade's world

"what is love?"

i went to yahoo and type in the exact same words n this is some interesting phrases the writer pointed out...

*Many people believe love is a sensation that magically generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. No wonder so many people are single. An excerpt from "Head to Heart."

This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.

LOVE IS A CHOICE, By focusing on the good, you can love almost anyone


The more you give, the more you love


"A relationship has its ups and downs," "The downs can be really low -- and when you're in one, you have three choices: Leave, stay in a loveless marriage, or choose to love your spouse."


just a simple four letter word but it definitely has profound meaning behind it.. which i'm sure most wld agree..


but wat i wonder is how love can really diminish so fast and at the end of the day u found out tat the person u tot u truly love is no longer loving u at all...hmm......

why i decide to post this entry is becoz today i can announced proudly tat i've walk out from the past..totally.

almost 3 yrs.. the day he called it a day & decide to leave for another person.. i used think it is only myself to blame for the failed relationship. thinking that i might nt be as gd as the other..

throughout the time, we still contact one another & it was like we're 'gd frens'.

i decided to put all this shit to a COMPLETE stop.

mayb, i finally realise wat the use of us contacting ?? its not as if we are still getting back tog..

it has really been awhile since we contacted and today, yes today he sms me asking whether am i ignoring him..


i intended to do so.... but was amazed he guessed it correctly...


my rely:

we r still frenz......



his reply:

i understand wat u mean.. can i still ask u out for ban mian??



*faint.....--->still can think of ban mian.....



my reply:

can. but mayb u shld start bringin ur gf.



his reply:

k.understand where u are coming frm.sorry. wun bother u again.



i did nt reply...



he msg me several minutes later




"Sorry if i made u mad or unhappy"




hmm.. frankly, i was nt mad or unhappy in any way... y shld i??




my colleague, andy once told me: 'you shld only cherish those who cherish you..'

he make sense....


& i will only make those who let me down be part of HISTORY..... ;P